The perfect mother is the new moon in Cancer. Even though she is aware that success could mean we fly far, she still wants us to succeed. She wants to give us everything, but she doesn’t since our character is shaped by our boundaries. If you were her, what qualities would you cultivate in yourself during this time of the moon’s blessing? Love is our mother; we are born of it. — Rumi
March 21–April 19 is ARIES. As long as you control your mood and intensity, you will be effective. Do not enter hot. Ask people how they are feeling about your presence. A straightforward “How do you feel about that?” has a significant impact.
April 20–May 20 is TAURUS. Because they don’t want to put you in danger or strain your friendship, friends may keep their truth from you. This self-control might be a sign of loyalty, respect, or emotional intelligence. It’s also the reason you need outside perspectives.
May 21–June 21 is GEMINI. You cannot tolerate inefficiency, which is defined as working harder than is necessary. For this reason, you adjust your strategy and work to develop superior systems that optimize motion and minimize friction.
June 22–July 22: CANCER. Nothing inspires you more than the possibility of receiving recognition from a person you look up to. Your drive is deeply connected to connection. This indicates that admiration is a form of fuel, not that you are needy. You’re energized by today’s energy exchange.
LEO (23 July–22 August). You enjoy the challenging work. You have an inkling about what you can do, and there s nothing quite like the thrill that comes over you when you realize you re actually doing the thing that seemed so impossible but a few short incarnations ago.
VIRGO (23 August–22 September). There is symmetry and rhythm today. The tone is set by how you start. Begin with intense attention and complete focus. If you re only half in, it won t carry. But when you lead with genuine energy, the finish will match the start.
LIBRA (23 September–23 October). There are those who search for extraterrestrial life in hopes of finding someone in this big universe who might be willing to shed some fresh light on the experience. You can relate. You too await a distant affirmation, and today you finally get a sign.
SCORPIO(Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Where there s a lack of structure, your influence will make a difference. Today shows you stepping into a situation that needs what you do best: clarity, order and direction. You ll use what s there, rearranging the elements in support of the plans.
SAGITTARIUS(Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Unhelpful and irrelevant thoughts pop to mind based on your past experiences, habits or worries — not unlike internet ads that track your browsing history. But just because a thought appears doesn t mean it deserves your attention or action. Click the X and it goes away.
CAPRICORN(Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Golden collaborations are coming together. Encourage unity. It doesn t mean losing your identity, just syncing up for the sake of a common goal. Pretend the group is one mind working for the betterment of all.
AQUARIUS(Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Good people wrestle with what they ve done, not to punish themselves but to grow. The ones who feel nothing can t change. So, if you feel bad, take heart — it means you re still someone worth trusting. Regret can only be felt by those who care.
PISCES(Feb. 19-March 20). Knowing enough to be dangerous means having just enough knowledge to feel confident but not enough to be wise — a risky place to operate from. Today, it s better to stay curious. When something tugs at your attention, go deeper. It could save you from a costly oversimplification.
TODAY S BIRTHDAY(June 25). Your decisions in the world are like a dance of legendary grace, not because there s a smooth dance floor beneath your feet but because you ve stopped expecting there to be one. Your sense of humor sharpens, your sense of purpose deepens, and people will follow your lead. More highlights: A wild idea finds structure. A relationship will be your great, shining pride. Scorpio and Aquarius adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 5, 17, 22, 30 and 9.
CELEBRITY PROFILES: Cancer s comedic sense is born of a need to protect themselves against harsh realities. Like a crab whose best defense is a hard shell, Cancer comedians deflect harm by turning it into a laugh. Textbook Cancer Ricky Gervais, the mastermind behind The Office, Extras, Derek and more comic masterpieces, blends vulnerability with bite. His humor disarms, then delivers truth — a classic Cancer move: make them laugh, then make them feel it.
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