A woman claims that after their wedding, her husband has changed completely, and she is not sure how to respond to this.
She explains on Reddit that she married her 27-year-old spouse last year. She believes he has changed almost completely since then.
She speaks of a particularly upsetting moment during their honeymoon: “He openly flirted with a waitress in front of me while we were on our honeymoon.” He had never crossed such a line before, much less during our honeymoon.
The woman, who is obviously shocked, claims that she was taken by surprise and at first began to doubt herself even though her instincts were right.
At first, I kept quiet, thinking myself that I was being overly dramatic and protective. However, he made it a point to go not just to stop in and have a drink but to see her specifically, so I knew he was flirting when she told us we simply had to return to see her the following day before we departed for the next location on our tour, she says.
She held off on approaching him for a few days. He was agitated when she did, but he eventually acknowledged it.
I was surprised. “I chose not to be upset, but to keep it in the back of my mind, considering that it might have been an isolated incident,” she remembers.
But the behavior persisted. He started flirting with another waitress in front of me at a bar a few months later!
I confronted him about it this time. He insulted me after denying it and claiming he was only inquiring about her clothes! She goes on. I sobbed in the bathroom for the remainder of the night.
In addition to his flirting actions, she reports that she feels like she does all the work at home and that he only helps out when I ask him to.
Additionally, he has been casually remarking on her food and body, despite knowing that this is a delicate subject for her.
My mom’s birthday was celebrated at my parents’ place a week ago. “Are you really getting a snack?” he yelled loudly as I stood up to get one. She remembers. He was reprimanded by my mother, who also told him that I may eat anything and whenever I wanted. I felt judged even though I received my snack.
He was chastised, but a few days later, when they were by themselves, he said something somewhat similar.
She goes on to say that he has never before commented on what, when, or how much I’ve eaten.
The woman acknowledges that she is dissatisfied and believes the cornerstone of their relationship has been gone. She claims that their friendship, let alone their romantic relationship, is all that remains.
She continues, “I don’t recognize him anymore,” and asks for guidance on what to do next.
